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Projection
Don't be a projector! You know he's always so precise, everything has to go his way, so narrow-minded! You're always so loud, can't you have a decent conversation? Clean up your room at last, it's an unparalleled mess. We have...
Inner attitude instead of communication methodology
Inner attitude instead of communication methodologyGFK as an attitude - what is it actually? Many people immediately think of NVC as communication techniques, but in reality it is much more than that. NVC is an attitude to life, a mindset that shapes our relationships and...
"It's all about connection"
"It's all about connection" The power of connection - focus on empathy A fundamental human need is to be accepted, taken seriously and to be part of a community. This deep desire for belonging and connection is in all of us....
Into deep Connection
How to connect (deeply) with people, especially when it's challenging - beyond small talk and objectivity.Watch the video below.
On the anatomy of conversations between couples
What happens in "normal" conversations between couples - and where NVC comes in...Recently I had the opportunity to experience a whole day of conversations between couples: while skiing on the chairlift, in the gondola or at the table in the restaurant. To start with...
NVC Considerations of a toilet bowl
How the idea of a new kind of toilet bowl may look from different postures...In mid-December, an "invention" was repeatedly in the media: a toilet bowl tilted forward, as seen in the picture. Whether this is "fake" or "real", I may...
That helps ...
A current topic, how this could be possible from a different perspective, from the point of view and attitude of the CSF...I came across this headline in 20min: This helps when the child drives you up the wall I had also been looking for this in the past: what can I do when...
Empathy comes from attitude
A current topic, how this could be possible from another perspective, from the point of view and attitude of the NVC... Today I "stumbled" across an article in which tips are given on how to increase emotional intelligence. I read that empathy is important. And that...
... but ... I want to know WHY ?
A current topic, how this could be possible from a different perspective, from the viewpoint and attitude of CSF... When I accompany people in life situations that are challenging for them, I often hear a sentence like this: "I want to know why did he do that? There...
Do we know what we are talking about?
In 2014, the Canadian-American professor of psychology at Yale University in New Haven, Paul Bloom, put forward a thesis that attracted a lot of attention (and a lot of attention). Since then, the topic has been discussed again and again in various...
Interview with Patricia Walker in "Ze!tpunkt
Issue 161 , May/June 2019 of Ze!tpunkt magazine is about "Letting go and sticking with it".The article "A new toothbrush?" by Sylvie Eigenmann sheds light on break-ups in partnerships: when is it time - or not yet? She asked Patricia...
It all depends on the attitude
The lady at the reception of the office building registers the craftsman as a visitor and hands him the badge for access control. He goes about his work on the upper floors and she about her duties at the reception. About half an hour later, the...